. "I would never date an ex-porn star" he says, . Well Before I was married I was a unpleasant person who enjoyed hurting people Now I try to refuse to harm anyone My past self now disgusts me People have pasts People change Life is short You are far from perfect yourself So, If you fall in love with someone and you find out they were once a sex worker Or a were once a brutal gangland thug Man-up or woman-up - and Get over it . Ok Maybe NOT if they were once a USA ICE Agent Because some shit is still fucking unforgivable! .

Is no one interested in the personality inside anymore? Age, up, down or sideways is not an entire adult person. Their past, good, bad or dull, - porn star, nun or accountant, Is Not an entire person. “Looks” Are not an entire person. - No matter “hot” someone at first is… …After the first three months you kinda stop noticing as much and the important things like shared values, interest and matching energies take over. …After the first three years you can start adding shared memories to that mix. …Eventually the amount quality time spent together should be all the ‘make up’ you should ever need! And at that point your love for each other should make you both seem “hot” to one another instead.

. Misandry Vs Misogyny . Misandry, is my mum …being forever wary of men as she tries to move on and while looking after a traumatised child. . While Misogyny is what caused my mum to have horrible things happen to her …in front of her child. . . The “Patriarchy” is simply trying to keep men and woman in love . Men in love with violence And Women in love with violent men . From films of mighty costumed heroes beating down a ‘bad guy’ made for kids To “heroic imagery” on a romantic book cover aimed at lonely women Because war and reconstruction make money Peace does not The “Patriarchy” is designed to control the whole human race The “Patriarchy” is a business model . “Dance little puppets!” “Dance!” “Fight for me” “Hate for me” “Kill for me” “Die for me” “Make me powerful” “Make me rich” .