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SOME
WELL MEANT NOTES AND ADVICE ON SOME “NICE PEOPLE”
.
A
lot of "nice People" are just wearing "masks”.
Not
to manipulate or fool anyone.
They
are not "bad" people,
They
are simply just to trying to survive, fit in and try to connect with the world
around them.
But
they do struggle a little bit to reach others on any real meaningful emotional level.
So,
they bluff and try the best they can with little or no adequate mental tools or
resources that the rest of you take for granted.
They
will never feel at home, comfortable, truly wanted or loved.
They
will always, no matter how hard they try/or other people try for them, forever
feel like a stranger in a strange land.
(Others,
usually instinctively know that there is something very wrong with them and
avoid them anyway.)
.
And
when such "nice people" get pushed too far and simply "decide to
give up", "quit on people" and let their mask slip off.
Then
the results can be, to put it politely, "colourful" to say the
least...
Because
such people are sadly capable of coldly compartmentalizing and finding and enacting
certain "solutions to problems" that the rest of you, thankfully,
will never be able to.
.
Such
types of “niceness” should not be mistaken for any type of weakness.
.
If
you value and love your quality of life
You
should then perhaps avoid ever becoming seen by such “nice people” as just a
mere "problem" that needs to the "solved”.
.
They
WILL attempt to SOLVE THAT PROBLEM!
They
will never really be able to ever truly understand or comprehend why everyone else
is so horrified by their elegant and final “solution.”
.
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