I was at a bar, artistic event thing earlier this week. Talking to a pretty woman about 'stoof'. (The fact she was pretty IS Relevant: because unfortunately, being a weak human, I probably would not have been as affected by her advice if my attention was not as engaged. Being a feeble minded mere human sucks.) Anyway. I have heard allot of past advice about "my ex", or rather "my feelings about being dumped" that has been trite nonsense. "Forgive her" blah, blah style puke. . But This pretty total stranger, said something brand new. She said. "Maybe you still hate your ex," "Because it's a way of still keeping a part of her" - ouch! . For a brief second I was angry at this pretty stranger because she said something true. So, yes, -'OUCH!' . Then, to double down the universe made my taxi back to the hotel take extra long to turn up on a cold wet night, So I had to think about that insight. . This insight wasn't ab...