.  I hate my ex wife. She dumbed me after 30 years.  I refuse to see or speak to her ever again.  . Not because she is evil,  Because she is Not evil.  There was no infidelity on either side,  She just fell out of love with me.  She wanted us to stay "Freinds".  (I am too weak to do that.) .  Not because it is morally right to do,  Because it is Not morally right to do.  She does Not deserve to be hated this way. .  But because I need to.  It's the only way I can survive this level of pain and hope to move on. Anger is easier than tears.  . I don't hate her, to punish her.  I hate her, to save me. .  I hate her so I can survive.