! Ignore the mess... ...I will sort it later... . I just spent nearly two hours moving my heavy bed, (Which clearly was never meant to be moved in one piece by just one person, so now I am a bit injured...) . Same location, just facing the other direction. It will take me a while to tidy up and put all the stuff I had to pull out, to move the bed, back in place. Which is why there is now a lot of mess for me to sort out later.... ! ? "Why?" "Why do this?" Might you ask? So, Now, the headboard faces the other way. . "Why?" "Why do this?" Might you ask? Because now... . When I sit up in bed, I see the view. When I lie in bed, I see the stars. ! Plus, the back of the headboard, facing the door, has a bit of space to stick some of my small art pictures on.... . . . .

! He punched a wall instead... ! A male "friend" of mine claimed he never hit a woman and instead only punched a wall near her, And this wanker could not understand how this was STILL Scary and Threatening to her! The "Man" could not understand or comprehend how this was STILL Not 'ok'. This person was 'bragging' about hitting the wall instead, As if they deserved some kind of 'gold smiley face' or a 'good boy reward' on their 'lunch box' for making the "Heroic" effort to not hit the woman he was supposed to care about. It could not enter his stupid toddler-style brain, that maybe having a violent reaction of any kind was Not an appropriate response, in any way, shape or form, ! Here's a hint - a man or woman, of any sexuality, SHOULD FEEL SAFER AND MORE SECURE WITH A ROMANTIC PARTNER! NOT the exact opposite of 'Safer and more Secure'! ! I am not a pacifist If it is in your nature to be a fighter, then th