! DEAR ALL MEN: Remember when you were little, and you were put in a position where you felt that you had to attack and hurt someone for the very first time? Maybe it was a school bully? Maybe it was peer pressure? Maybe it was a parent who said, "Don't be so soft!" "Hit Them!" Can you remember really not wanting to hurt them? Not wanting to do it? . Get THAT feeling back! Be THAT again! Become a real human being again! .

. I have Very Few male friends. VERY FEW! . I have an active bigotry against all men. Including myself. To the extent that I could Never join any men's health or therapy group. . I don't trust 'em. I don't like 'em. I do not like their lad culture. I disrespect their macho heritage. I keep expecting violence from them. I hear what they say. I see what they do. I know what they really are. And they keep proving me right about them. .