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GENERAL PUBLIC POLITE REMINDER!
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A willingness to help
IS NOT
A willingness to obey!
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If you offer advice,
And it IS just advice –
Then you won’t be insulted if I refuse to take that advice!
If you Insist that your advice, be followed, then it is no longer just advice!
It instead becomes an instruction, condition or given order!
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Too Many people and organisations keep confusing
my willingness to help and be helpful to them,
With a willingness to be owned and controlled by them!
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Just because I go out of my way to help a person, gallery, group or organisation.
Does NOT mean I suddenly become a thrall or foot soldier for that person, gallery, group, or organisation.
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I do not change.
I will not change.
I will always choose to break rather than bend.
To die rather than back down.
To walk away rather than stay a part of your so-called “Family”.
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Helping you does NOT mean I need you to like me!
I help - to help you – NOT to get something from you!
I do not need your conditional money!
I do not need your conditional love!
I do not need your conditional friendship!
I do not need your conditional respect!
Those things should only ever be given unconditionally - or not at all!
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Me wanting to help others is Not some deep longing for subservience.
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I choose to have no friends over “friends” that want to control me!
I choose to have no family over “family” that want to make me a “Family Pet”!
I choose to be part of nothing over being your organisation's emotionally tied slave!
I don’t want to be your follower!
I most definitely DO NOT want to be your leader! – Either!
Either be my side-by-side equal or fuck off!
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I CAN, and I WILL just walk away from You and Your entire group!
Because I am strong enough to take loneliness
– and instead of fighting it
– pull it into me and make it an innate part of who I am!
.
SHORTHAND!
YES = I want to help people!
NO = I will not bend a knee to them and obey them!
NOTE: THE FUCKING DIFFERENCE!
.
GENERAL PUBLIC POLITE REMINDER!
.
A willingness to help
IS NOT
A willingness to obey!
.
If you offer advice,
And it IS just advice –
Then you won’t be insulted if I refuse to take that advice!
If you Insist that your advice, be followed, then it is no longer just advice!
It instead becomes an instruction, condition or given order!
.
Too Many people and organisations keep confusing
my willingness to help and be helpful to them,
With a willingness to be owned and controlled by them!
.
Just because I go out of my way to help a person, gallery, group or organisation.
Does NOT mean I suddenly become a thrall or foot soldier for that person, gallery, group, or organisation.
.
I do not change.
I will not change.
I will always choose to break rather than bend.
To die rather than back down.
To walk away rather than stay a part of your so-called “Family”.
.
Helping you does NOT mean I need you to like me!
I help - to help you – NOT to get something from you!
I do not need your conditional money!
I do not need your conditional love!
I do not need your conditional friendship!
I do not need your conditional respect!
Those things should only ever be given unconditionally - or not at all!
.
Me wanting to help others is Not some deep longing for subservience.
.
I spent too long already being a little bitch for my ex-wife. – over 30 years or it!
Now I am divorced I am not going to start bowing to some different tin-pot throne.
Only for me to become just someone else’s little bitch instead.
I Help others to give me a sense of purpose.
Not to put your chains on my ankles!
.I choose to have no friends over “friends” that want to control me!
I choose to have no family over “family” that want to make me a “Family Pet”!
I choose to be part of nothing over being your organisation's emotionally tied slave!
I don’t want to be your follower!
I most definitely DO NOT want to be your leader! – Either!
Either be my side-by-side equal or fuck off!
.
I CAN, and I WILL just walk away from You and Your entire group!
Because I am strong enough to take loneliness
– and instead of fighting it
– pull it into me and make it an innate part of who I am!
.
SHORTHAND!
YES = I want to help people!
NO = I will not bend a knee to them and obey them!
NOTE: THE FUCKING DIFFERENCE!
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