I can't cum with one-night stands. (Which is why I don't do them)

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If I am with a woman I don't know well enough.
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I can have a painful hard-on that won't quit and have sex for hours.
(No, it is not as fun as it sounds. It's unsatisfying and painful and frustrating)
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I can only orgasm and go limp again if I feel emotionally connected to the woman.
It doesn't have to be "love", but I do have to know and like her
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Being attractive is just not enough.
No matter how 'hot' she is.
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I can't cum with one-night stands.
(Which is why I don't do them)
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This is why being faithful to whoever I am with is so appealing.

And why I have zero interest in hook-up sites or "professionals".

(Don't get me wrong - sex work IS real work! - but such "services" won't work for me.) 
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Do any other men out there have this issue?

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