Teach you kids early - Safe adults don’t ask children to keep secrets , Ever –. . Accept when there IS a good (although thankfully very rare) exception.

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Teach you kids early - Safe adults don’t ask children to keep secrets , Ever –.
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Accept when there IS a good (although thankfully very rare) exception.
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When I was just 11, I was reluctantly introduced to my genetic father for the first time, since I was 3.
I was grilled and rehearsed over and over again and official cover story, to keep loads of secrets from him.
So yes, - I was told to keep secrets.
- As I spent time with him he kept trying to trick me into revealing stuff all the time.
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Despite and the gifts and treats,
It was a stressful nightmare each year,
Playing this verbal cat and mouse game vs an adult.
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- Years later I found out why.
IF he had gotten the information he wanted from me, got past my defences, people would have gotten killed by the psychotic misogynist bastard!
My younger brother, as a child form another man, - DEAD
My father, Who I call "Dad", Mr Lombardi, a good man – DEAD
My Mum – After some nasty stuff done to her first, – DEAD
And me whisked away to be made into his image, his “replacement”.
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Thank you for letting me vent this.

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